Welcome to the board Kneehighmiah.
Serving as an elder is a real eye opener. I often think that if elders meetings could be televised, as many parliaments now do, then so many more R&F
would leave the "organisation".
From my experience, there are always one or two genuine loving and caring elders, who believe they can make a difference, but sooner or later, they
step down, completely disillusioned by what they have seen.
It is very commendable that you wish to help everyone you meet.
You'll find the support you need here on the board. Good luck.
jlp